Guest Blogger: Jenna
Living with someone addicted to alcohol, drugs or suffering from another addiction can be difficult. Even just remaining their friend is hard, but there are ways to help them seek help for their addiction. Here are a few ways you can help someone dealing with an addiction.
Understanding the Addiction
Before you can do anything else, it’s important to understand the addiction they are struggling with. Each person and addiction is different and there are different ways to describe addiction, in general. The disease model is one of the more accurate descriptions and can help you understand how addiction works.
Establish Boundaries and Limits
Setting boundaries can be difficult, but it’s an important part of helping someone addicted to alcohol, drugs or anything else. An example of setting a boundary is communicating that you don’t want to be around the person if they are drunk or high. This will be difficult because you might hurt their feelings, but it’s necessary if you really want to help the person.
Informal intervention can be very powerful and this is a way of confronting the person. Just mentioning a website, phone number, or other resource as a way to get more information about the help available could be the difference. You may not think it will help, but sometimes informally talking to the person about seeking help is what sparks them to look into the different options.
Do Rehabilitation Programs Actually Work?
The statistics don’t lie. According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), more than 24 million US residents suffer from drug addiction, but only 10% receive help from a professional facility. Addiction kills over 20,000 people in the United States every year and the rates of people admitting to addiction have skyrocketed by 500% over the past 20 years.
Over 40% of those seeking treatment successfully complete the program they choose. However, about half of those completing their program will relapse, but if an individual doesn’t enter into a treatment program, they are more likely to continue using. Less than 1% of addicts using self-treatment options successfully kick the habit.
When someone you know is addicted to drugs, alcohol or anything else, you can help them. Make sure, when they are ready, you help them find the right treatment for their needs and don’t forget about the aftercare program. Those entering into an aftercare program are more likely to stay sober because of the support it provides when they transition back into everyday life.
Do you have a friend or family member who deals with an addiction issue? Comment below on your experiences.